Talking About Death and Planning Ahead

How to start conversations about end-of-life wishes, and the practical plans that bring peace of mind: wills, powers of attorney and advance care plans.

In short

  • Talking about death can feel hard, but many people feel relief afterwards.
  • Plans to think about: a will, a Lasting Power of Attorney, and your wishes for future care.
  • It is best to plan while you are well and able to decide.

Why plan ahead

Planning ahead means your wishes are known and respected, and it spares your family difficult guesses at a stressful time. It is never too early, and it does not mean giving up hope.

Things to consider

  • A will, so your estate goes where you want it to.
  • A Lasting Power of Attorney, so someone you trust can make decisions if you cannot.
  • An advance care plan, setting out what matters to you about future care. Your GP can help.
  • Funeral wishes, written down and shared.

Starting the conversation

  • Choose a calm moment, not a crisis
  • Start with what matters to them: “What would be important to you if you became ill?”
  • Listen more than you talk
  • It is fine to have several shorter conversations

Marie Curie and Age UK have helpful guides to planning ahead.

Companionship and peace of mind

Companions do not give legal or medical advice, but they can help arrange appointments with solicitors or GPs and offer company along the way. Find out more about our lifestyle support.

Where to get help

About Livingsupported: we offer private, non-regulated companionship, home help and lifestyle support across South Manchester, Cheshire and Staffordshire. We do not provide personal, nursing or medical care, counselling or therapy. Request a free home visit or call 0161 250 5341.